Shame Is A Shitty Teacher (EP 291)
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January 23, 2021
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Shame Is A Shitty Teacher (EP 291)

Shame is often an effective tool for forcing changes in behaviour, but it is rarely ever a healthy one. This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos explores how and why Shame is such a driving factor in People Pleasers. 

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56
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September 4, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Learning to Journey with Katey (EP 270)

Today's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is about a young woman who booked a personal session to learn how to journey. Karen recaps some of the basic tools involved in this process and the importance of valuing all of our senses when it comes to exploring the spirit world. 

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August 28, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Being In Your Own Life (EP 269)

Hannah made the healthy decision in this lifetime to break patterns and truly be in her own life. She walked away from relationships that weren't reciprocal and she set boundaries so that she could live more intentionally and fully. But how do these changes and actions affect those around her? What is the risk/reward of truly being in one's own life?

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August 21, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Karma's Neutral Charge (EP 268)

We have many soul contracts within one lifetime and with them, a responsibility to learn. We also experience endless opportunities to hurt or heal one another and with those opportunities, karma is created. But how do we finally set karma back to a neutral charge? Find out today on Coffee with the Sarlos!

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August 14, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Remote Viewing (EP 267)

Karen and Kelly are discussing the gift of Remote Viewing in today's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos. They're defining what it is, how it's done and some of the various ethical and non-ethical ways they've been asked to practice this gift during sessions. 

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August 7, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

A Very Good Match (EP 266)

Elisha was curious to know the whereabouts of a missing person in her life, so she's called Karen for answers. However, the answers may be a little bit more than she bargained for. 

38
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July 31, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Ever-Present Love (EP 265)

The ever-present love of Aaliyah's grandparents is wonderfully evident in her one-on-one session with Karen. Aaliyah's grandparents have passed on, but are so thrilled to be able to share just a few of the ways that they have stayed connected to their granddaughter including the milestones and the "mundane" parts of her life.

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July 24, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Write That Down (EP 264)

George lost his dad very suddenly and like so many of us, he wasn't done learning from his pops. So he booked a session with Karen, busted out his Dad Journal and took a few solid notes from his deceased dad's wisdom.

49
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July 17, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

My Ego, Gert (EP 263)

Our ego gets in our way plenty! We often think it protects us, but in fact it is the thing that sabotages us from learning and growing. On today's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos Karen and Kelly are discussing how to identify our own ego and ways to take better care of them. 

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July 10, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Perfectly Hidden Depression with Dr. Margaret Rutherford (EP 262)

We are so tickled to welcome clinical psychologist, podcast host and world renown author Dr. Margaret Rutherford to the show this week! We are educating ourselves and listeners about an important, self-isolating syndrome known as Perfectly Hidden Depression. We hope that today's show helps those suffering with PHD to be both seen and validated in your experience and we hope that you are able to grow in both compassion and empathy toward yourself. 

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July 3, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Schemes and Payoffs (EP 261)

Lynn has a retirement plan- or more specifically, she plans to ride out a 2 year stress leave 'till she can officially retire. And she's claiming stress by her boss and coworkers. But what is Lynn's part in this stress? Tune in to find out!

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June 26, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

You Can't Isolate Anger Part II (EP 260)

Part II of our story about Kevin is playing out in this week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos! If you will recall, Kevin is an angry man and it's been festering in him for so long that he's not sure what it's about any more. But he's back to gain some insight and tools. The guides are starting with his family of origin and they're not cutting him any slack! Today is about change!

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June 19, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

It Doesn't Have to Be That Hard (EP 259)

This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is highlighting two very polar sessions. The first is an example of respectful, collaborative clients who are utilizing their sessions to learn the most they can and help themselves move forward with ease in their healing. The second is an example of how many humans complicate their own lives and make their own experiences far more difficult than they need to be. Can you find yourself in today's stories? Can you anticipate or observe how this impacts your loved ones and their overall happiness?

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June 12, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Donna's Dismissiveness (EP 258)

Donna is a verbal abuser. She sabotages her relationships and she never truly knows how to get what she wants or needs in life. In this week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos, Donna has the opportunity to learn from her deceased mother and step-father where she learned these unhealthy tools and how they continue to bring her feelings of tremendous shame. 

58
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June 5, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Future Faking You (EP 257)

What is Future Faking, you ask? Future Faking is the promise of action or change that you will do or get to... one day. Not today. Never today. This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos illustrates great examples of what Future Faking looks like and how it deeply impacts the us as we wait for this one-day change to occur. 

48
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May 29, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

You Can't Isolate Anger (EP 256)

"Kevin" is an angry man; there's no doubt about that. The problem is, he's lost track of where and how it began and he's lost control of its direction. Now he's angry all the time, at everyone and everything. BUT, he's taken the first step by seeing Karen, to begin understanding the importance of learning how one can undo or unlearn these unproductive behaviours. Because let's face it, you can't isolate anger!

80
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May 22, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Why Choice Truly Matters (EP 255)

This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos illustrates an important contrast of choices in how to cope with and heal from the aftermath of the abuse in residential schools. Clients "Grace" and "Frankie" took two very different approaches to their lives after surviving the horrors of residential schools and this is a lesson that we can all use in our healing process.

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May 15, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Pratyahara with Amanda Cooley (EP 254)

Coffee with the Sarlos is excited to bring senior yoga instructor Amanda Cooley back to the show! The ladies are discussing the importance of a holistic yoga practice, especially amidst these COVID times. But sit tight- if you're not a yoga enthusiast, the discussion is not focused on postures (asanas); this is a discussion about a yogic mindset as you move about your day, your work and hobbies as well as how you approach your interpersonal relationships.

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May 8, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

A Story of Overcoming & Connectedness (EP 253)

Carmen Theobald is back on Coffee with the Sarlos this week sharing her feel-good stories about her horses! There are some pretty wonderful messages that Karen was able to channel for her with regards to her horses, Grace and Spring.

56
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May 1, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

A Contract for Growth (EP 252)

This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is educating listeners about the complex realm of Soul Contracts and their infinite possibilities. "Aubrey" books a session in hopes to better understand the contract between her and her youngest sister "April". 

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April 24, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

A Mishmash of Happiness (EP 251)

*Disclosure: due do multiple unforeseen circumstances, April 25th's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is airing late. We apologize for the delay. Today's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is beautiful mishmash of 5 stories that are sure to bring you different feelings of happiness and hope. 5 clients stories are shared in the hopes that you can find pieces of yourselves in them and learn how to live and love a little better. 

32
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April 17, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

The Importance of Character (EP 250)

This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is a heart-wrenching example of why your character is of utmost importance. Your trustworthiness, your honesty, your accountability- these are traits that directly contribute to the kind of support systems you cultivate in your life, and as we know, these support systems are vital to your survival at times. See how Leslie discovers this truth.

55
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April 10, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Love and Resiliency (EP 249)

This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos is diving into one of the most beautiful sessions we've experienced yet. This is a story about a mother and her three unborn children who are proud to tell their mother they know her, they love her and that they are endlessly proud of what she has done with her life. 

61
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April 3, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

The Gift of A Beautiful Friendship (EP 248)

Each week Karen and Kelly make an effort to help grow you as humans. This week they are sharing this opportunity through the story of great friendship. As most of listeners know from two weeks ago, Karen lost her best friend, Karen Mitchell, to a very sudden and life-ending brain bleed. Well, Karen's soul is as strong-willed as her human was and she thought it would be great to hammer home the messages of integrity, empathy and process at least one more time!

51
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March 27, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

Back to His Soul (EP 247)

Richard and his father shared an important conversation over a cup of coffee and got down to the bottom of Richard's intense need for perfection. Karen spent one full hour channelling Richard's father so that the opportunity for some deep healing could finally be accessible. 

51
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March 22, 2020
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Coffee With The Sarlos

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COVID is hitting us all hard and we don't know how long it's going to stick around, so we have published a show entirely dedicated to helpful emotional and mental tools for your pandemic situation. 

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